EP325 Navigating Betrayal in Conflict Resolution: Insights from Raheena Lalani Daya
In a recent episode of the LMI Podcast, we delved into the complex world of betrayal within conflict resolution, guided by the expertise of Raheena Lalani Daya. Raheena, a seasoned mediator and professor, brings a wealth of experience and a deep understanding of the human psyche to her work.
During our discussion, Raheena explored the multifaceted nature of betrayal, from personal relationships to societal expectations. She emphasized the importance of understanding the length and intensity of relationships when addressing betrayal, highlighting how these factors influence emotional responses and conflict dynamics. Raheena also shared insights into attachment theory, explaining how our early bonds shape our reactions to betrayal and the potential for repair.
For mediators and conflict resolution professionals, Raheena’s insights offer valuable tools for helping mediation parties navigate the emotional landscape of betrayal. By fostering micro-trusts and focusing on repair, such as Kintsugi, mediators can guide parties toward reconciliation and a more harmonious future.
Learn more about Raheena’s work and her approach to mediation, connect with her on LinkedIn and explore her contributions to the field.
Mentioned links and images
2. Raheena on attachment theory: Attachment Theory and Trampolines: An Introduction To Attachment Styles on blog RaheenaWrites.com.
3. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love (see pg. 158)
4. Doug Noll’s Episode on LMIPodcast
5. Hoffman’s Mediation Ethics
6. Sahil Bloom’s post on LinkedIn regarding ‘helped, heard, hugged’ model.
7. Some facts about domestic violence, including during the first pregnancy, referenced in minute 59 of the interview)
8. Author Nancy K Schlossberg’s Overwhelmed: Coping with Life’s Ups and Downs
9. Instagram post referenced 1:07 referencing Destini Davis | Certified Parent Coach.
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