EP342 Katy Harris on Children and Parenting Conflicts
In my recent conversation with Katy Harris, a family and civil mediator, we delved into the intricate world of conflict resolution, focusing on the profound effects of parental separation on children. Katy, of MediationMattersMidlands of the UK, shared her personal journey and professional insights, emphasizing the critical role of communication and responsibility in maintaining a healthy environment for children.
Katy’s recent LinkedIn article, “A Boy is Dead and We’re Still Pretending We Don’t Know Why. It Ends With Me,” served as a poignant backdrop for our discussion. She highlighted the importance of addressing generational trauma and the need for parents to take accountability for their actions. Katy’s perspective is deeply rooted in her experiences as a mother of boys and her work with children, where she has witnessed firsthand the challenges boys face in expressing emotions.
We explored the societal shifts required to better support children through difficult times, including the adoption of the Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) approach. This method focuses on holding firm without resorting to conflict, encouraging parents to work together to support their children. Katy stressed the importance of a supportive network, urging parents to rely on friends, family, and professionals to navigate the complexities of co-parenting.
Our conversation also touched on the need for a joint narrative between parents, ensuring that children feel secure and supported despite the challenges of separation. Katy’s insights are a reminder of the power of empathy and understanding in fostering a nurturing environment for the next generation.
As we wrapped up, Katy expressed her openness to learning and growing, inviting others to share their insights and experiences. Her dedication to protecting and nurturing children is truly inspiring, and I am grateful for the opportunity to share her wisdom with you.
